LACK OF NOVELTY Most relationships need excitement, change and new experiences as much as they need stability, loyalty and certainty. When novelty fades, it may leave people feeling bored or…
The attachment theory by psychiatrist and psychoanalyst John Bowlby identifies four adult attachment styles: anxious, avoidant, disorganised and secure. While we may strongly identify with one type of attachment, it's…
You know that thing you feel deep in your gut? The feelings that you can't pin down or explain in words. We often think of them as hunches, intuitions or…
Radical listening means listening without judgment, keeping silent and giving your full attention so that the speaker will continue sharing. It isn’t complicated. It is disciplined and requires practice: It…
DESIRES, GOALS & VALUES What does your heart really want? How do you see yourself/ your business/ your relationship/ your health 2 years from now? How do you hope other…
Nature The most powerful cure and comfort for loneliness, fear or overwhelm of any kind is outside, under the sun, is nature. Some ways to stay close to nature: Walk…
The Grey Rock Method is a communication strategy for disengaging from a manipulative, constantly challenging or emotionally abusive person when cutting ties with them isn't an option (this could be…
Drink 2 tall glasses of water Clean up your desk or workspace Write and send someone a loving text Give yourself a gentle face massage Free-write your thoughts in a…
Have no more than three most important tasks each day. Complete the hardest task first. Try to do more ‘walk and talk‘ meetings. It increases energy, relieves stress and produces…
Minding one's own business Being 0% passive aggressive Really listening when someone is talking Being funny without being hurtful Not needing to immediately defend or explain Being emotionally available Getting…